Pakistani actors and actress are always vocal by using their social platforms when it comes to double standards, injustice, and violence. Mansha Pasha, Hania Amir, Gohar Rasheed, Dua Malik, and many other well-known celebrities came forth to support Fatema Sohail who’s the wife of Mohsin Abbas Haider.
Last night, Fatema took her Facebook account to tell about the domestic violence she is suffering from. In a detailed post, she shared how Mohsin is cheating on her and physically abused her when she was pregnant.
Here’s what Fatema wrote in her post:
Zulim Bardast kerna bhi Qunah hai! I am Fatima. Wife of Mohsin Abbas Haider & here is my story. On 26th Nov 2018, I caught my husband cheating. When I confronted him, instead of being embarrassed he started Beating me. I was pregnant at that time! He pulled me from hair, dragged me on floor, kicked me several times, punched me on face & threw me on the wall. I was brutally beaten by my husband. My caretaker! Traumatized me contacted a friend instead of family & was rushed to hospital. Doctor initially refused to do checkup as it was a police case. I needed some time to digest the shock & not file a complaint. I was able to get my ultra sound where the sight of relief was that my baby was not harmed! Societal Pressure or my own confidence. I do not know what ..but I decided to make my marriage work for my own child. On 20th May 2019 I was blessed with a beautiful boy. I had a surgery due to complication. While I was in operation theater in Lahore, my husband was in Karachi sleeping with his GF, Nazish Jehangir, an emerging model/actor. He later posts depressing statuses to get public attention.My family stood with me but my better half chose not to. Mohsin visited after 2 days of delivery just to take images and gain some publicity. He did not bother to check on his son. It was only a drama for social appreciation. On 17th July, I went to Mohsin’s Home & asked him to take our son’s responsibility where he started beating me again! He refused to do anything for his son! Now I had Enough! I am posting this to tell this to all girls! Look at me! Societal Pressure or not but there is a limit to put a full stop! No 1 else will do it except us for ourselves. I have no idea how I will raise my child on my own …but I know Allah will help me! I had enough of verbal & physical abuse. I had enough of Divorce threats! Enough! Proves are attached. Truth Told! Now I will see you in court Mr Mohsin!
Zulim Bardast kerna bhi Qunah hai! I am Fatima. Wife of Mohsin Abbas Haider & here is my story.On 26th Nov 2018, I…
Posted by Fatema Sohail on Saturday, July 20, 2019
This post spread like a fire on social media and here’s how our celebrities slammed Mohsin Abbas Haider for this.
Sick to my stomach. What gives anybody the right to raise their hand on anyone? Nothing. No excuse.
For eons now we have normalised abuse (of all kinds) and for the sake of our children this needs to stop.— Mahira Khan (@TheMahiraKhan) July 21, 2019
You know all the fame you get, all the hard work you put into your work, that body you keep working on, those sleepless nights of shooting and working hard don’t pay off when you’re a piece of shit! #TimesUp pic.twitter.com/phRxQpPnYg
— Hania Aamir (@realhaniahehe) July 20, 2019
I've been staring at this screen, grappling with the images I saw, trying to form a coherent sentence.
…
There is a special place in hell reserved for anyone who would lay so much as a finger on a woman.
You cannot justify abuse.
It is indefensible.
I am sick to my stomach.— Osman Khalid Butt (@aClockworkObi) July 21, 2019
Dear men,
Before you even think abt hitting your women, JUST DONT.
There is no excuse, no validation, nothing u can offer that in ANY way makes this okay.
We are stronger than we look & we will fight back.
Silence is not, was not & never will be an option.— manshapasha (@manshapasha) July 21, 2019
So so disappointed! Domestic Violence/ Physical Abuse is a Sin and a Crime . Sharam Aani Chaiye
— Aagha Ali (@AaghaAli) July 21, 2019
I can’t begin to stress enough on this issue. This is just one story. Firstly, thank you Fatema – for getting the courage & coming out with your story for all the girls suffering from the same issue. Countless women are silenced by monsters like these, physically & mentally. 1/2
— Asim Azhar (@AsimAzharr) July 21, 2019
We, as a society, need to cancel & boycott all these toxic beings. Do not give them any publicity at all in any circumstances. No more proofs needed, no more ‘wait for his side of the story’. Because domestic violence is NOT okay in response of ANY action. #TimesUp 2/2
— Asim Azhar (@AsimAzharr) July 21, 2019
Nahi meri jaan. Iss walay scene mai tou aisa sochna bhi mat. By saying ‘wait for his response’ you’re automatically saying that him beating his wife might be justified. Sab dekhne kay baad bhi agar hum wait kar rahe hain kay shayad sahi haath uthaya ho tou laanat hai humnay. https://t.co/zR5jCZ0AE5
— Asim Azhar (@AsimAzharr) July 21, 2019
I am shocked to see that instead of supporting the suppressed, so many of us are waiting & wanting to hear ‘the other side of the story’ – how can ANYTHING possibly justify physical abuse?! Unbelievable.
— Asim Azhar (@AsimAzharr) July 21, 2019
You guys might not know the ‘other side of the story’ but sadly some of us do. So wait all you want to hear your beloved response. But I will not stand people like these in the society & the least I can do is speak up.
— Asim Azhar (@AsimAzharr) July 21, 2019
Growing up I remember, once my father got really upset when he saw my mother crying. Upon inquiring, he found out that one of our neighbor used to beat his wife. He went up to his house the same day and put him in his place. The guy was a wuss. #MohsinAbbasHaider shame on you!
— Haroon Shahid (@HaroonsMusic) July 21, 2019
https://www.instagram.com/p/B0LXbM9lP3N/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link
Apart from celebrities, here’s how the public is reacting on this matter!
HE HAS BEATEN HIS WIFE, WHAT OTHER SIDE? IF YOU THINK THERE IS AN OTHER SIDE OF THE STORY AND WAITING FOR IT THEN YOU ARE A CHUTIYA TOO LIKE HIM AND PLEASE UNFOLLOW ME RFN. NOTHING CAN JUSTIFY IT.
— Rey (@Reyaanshoukat) July 20, 2019
Mohsin abbas haider is also cancelled. All men are cancelled.
— ﻡ, (@naheinyaar) July 20, 2019
What’s the other side of the story of a man cheating on and beating up his pregnant wife?
— Noor (@NoorHSumra) July 20, 2019
At this point if you are using your voice to defend the accused over an act as heinous as beating up a pregnant woman, you are a sick clog in this problematic pattern.
Speak up. #MohsinAbbasHaider
— Roha Nadeem (@RohaNadym) July 21, 2019
What will u tweet, if you get to know Fatima is back with #MohsinAbbasHaider , she don’t want public to get involved anymore as this will destroy her family life, We have seen celeb husband wife divorce drama before, plz share why females get back to same man
— Waqar Zaka (@ZakaWaqar) July 21, 2019
So glad #Pakistani women are talking about #domesticabuse #FatemaSohail I hope this gives the courage to women to talk about violence at the hands of fathers and brothers too.
— Soniah Kamal (@SoniahKamal) July 21, 2019
It would have been easier if #MohsinAbbasHaider would’ve behaved like a decent person. It would’ve been easier if instead of making lame excuses, people would call out the abusers and keep their “ifs and buts” to themselves and not tell the victims when and how to react. https://t.co/in8je44P1J
— Sadaf Alvi (@TheGrumpyDoctor) July 21, 2019
Actor Mohsin Abbas Haider accused of domestic abuse by wife Fatema Sohail. More power to Fatema for speaking up, while most victims of domestic abuse suffer in silence. https://t.co/8KGXmSIkkB pic.twitter.com/wmWDd36kdJ
— Naila Inayat नायला इनायत (@nailainayat) July 21, 2019
Beating a woman who's not only pregnant but pregnant with your own child is the worst most malicious thing a man could do #MohsinAbbasHaider
— Mustafa Chaudhary (@Mustafa_Chdry) July 20, 2019
People who shared Yasir Hussain and Iqra Aziz proposal and kisses saying iS ThIs ourR culTurE are now commenting that Mohsin Abbas Haider and his torture to her wife is their personal matter.
WAAAAAH KYAAA BAAT HAI IS QAUM KI
— Anas Tipu (@teepusahab) July 20, 2019
MEN ARE TRASH,but let’s not forget the supporting roles that are played by women like Tooba&Nazish who’re equal culprits,in these scenarios which are easily avoidable. Why do these hoes go for married men with kids? How can you form a family by destroying one? #MohsinAbbasHaider pic.twitter.com/QbYfTma7EY
— Aliza Ansari (@aliza__ansari) July 20, 2019
Let’s wait for the Mohsin’s response on this. Stay tuned with us for further updates. Wanna add something to it? Let us know in the comments below!
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